Who I am — and why I do this work.
This isn’t about credentials. It’s about scars. And how those scars shaped the work I do with men like you.
On the outside, I looked like I was winning.
For years, I played the game perfectly. Career climbing. Money flowing. The image was polished: strong, capable, unshakable.
But that’s all it was — an image. Behind it, I was drowning. The pressure never stopped. The bad habits I thought I controlled were controlling me. I smiled in photos, but inside I was hollow.
I told myself: “I can handle it. I’ll sort it out later.” But later never came. And the mask got heavier every day.
I went places most men don’t admit to.
There were nights I drank to forget. Mornings I hated myself before I even got out of bed. I lost things that mattered because I couldn’t face what was happening inside me.
I carried shame so heavy it nearly broke me. Addiction. Anger. Silence. I was living two lives — the one everyone saw, and the one I barely survived.
And for a while, I thought that was it. That this was who I was destined to be.
But breaking doesn’t mean it’s over. Sometimes it’s the beginning.
There came a moment I couldn’t keep running. No more hiding. No more pretending. I faced the truth I’d buried for years: I wasn’t in control anymore.
It was brutal. It was humbling. But it was also the first time I was honest with myself.
Piece by piece, I started rebuilding. Not with self-help clichés. Not with “just think positive.” With raw honesty, practical shifts, and people who didn’t let me hide anymore.
That’s where the real change began.
I rebuilt my life — not perfectly, but truthfully.
It wasn’t quick. It wasn’t pretty. But over time, I became someone I could respect again.
I learned how to break cycles instead of repeating them. How to lead without burning out. How to live without numbing myself every night.
And somewhere along that climb, I realised something: the very battles I thought would destroy me had given me the tools to help other men fight their own.
This isn’t theory. This is lived experience.
I don’t coach from textbooks. I don’t sit across from you with a clipboard. I sit with you as a man who’s been through the fire, and came out the other side.
I know what it’s like to hate the man in the mirror. I know what it’s like to feel trapped in cycles you can’t break. I know what it’s like to carry success in one hand and self-destruction in the other.
And I know — because I’ve lived it — that it doesn’t have to end there.
If you see yourself in my story, maybe it’s time to start yours.
I don’t offer quick fixes. I offer truth, tools, and a way forward. If you’re ready to drop the mask and rebuild, I’ll walk with you every step of the way.
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